master bedroom makeover HELP!

Finally, a new bedroom set is in the makings for us.

Although our current set is still in good condition, it is going on 13 years old, and the style is really not what we like anymore.

Our minds have been swirling with ideas.

I thought this is going to be fun, because you all will be coming along this bedroom makeover with us.

 Most everything current must go. I will be keeping the trunk and the bench.

Even my fun colorful French posters...GONE....

Here are the every changing Master bedroom looks no particular order here.

This picture down below of our bedroom was 
BEFORE BLOGGING

This last one was my most popular. The bedding was from Better Home and gardens purchased last year. I still love the fun fresh colors.

So now that you have seen the ever changing Master bedroom.  These are just some of the new looks and styles I am going for.  I do need some help though.  

I am really leaning toward a wrought iron bed frame, paired up with a wood sideboard and dresser.

I like the look of the wrought iron.  If we can have a farmhouse, rustic, look, that is what I am going for.

I like the frame only on this, I certainly do not need a pull out in the master bedroom.

Call me crazy, but this last one...I kinda like it.

So as you can see I am all over the place here.

HELP?
Would love any and all ideas. There are so many talented women out here. 

Any suggestions would be appreciated.  We are starting from Scratch.

The wall color will remain the same.  The drapes are iffy, depending on what new bedding we wind up with. 

I still want to have color, whimsy yet a romantic  feeling.

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